NVN Wednesday: WHAT I WANTED AND WHAT I GOT
by Susan Vespoli
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I wanted my son back. I wanted the cop who shot him to be held accountable. I wanted my son to be standing here wearing his Pure-Heart t-shirt, handing out food boxes. I wanted him to ask for more light clothes for Christmas, more white socks because he believed light colors would help him stay clean. I wanted another cross for him to carry—mosaic-ed in fractured glass— another coffee date at Starbucks, another tour of his apartment furnished with found lamps and a found statue of a bear holding a fish that says “Welcome.” I wanted his voice saying “I love you, Mom,” his fingers texting me photos of geese and cats and quail eggs laid in a ceramic swan. What I got was a wrongful death lawsuit, a deposition where I was shamed and blamed by an eye-rolling smirking bitch of a City of Phoenix lawyer who mocked my 12-step beliefs, asking sarcastically, “Did it help?” I got my Facebook account invaded by the cop’s legal team, two of my poetry books used as evidence against my son. I got a gag order—no more speaking about or publishing poems about the loss or the case, two canceled poetry readings. I got a t-shirt that says: “Make art in the face of fuck.” I got the face of fuck. I got a pen and more notebooks because the cop’s lawyers confiscated my journals and I write anyway and I write anyway and I still believe good will prevail. Still believe the spirit of Adam stands among us, that his words “I think god has another plan for my life” will ring and ring and crack the wrecking ball of the cops’ denial and out of the shatter—will glow my son’s smile, his essence, his light.
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Author’s Note by Susan Vespoli: City of Phoenix is squirming about the upcoming results of the DOJ’s two-year investigation into their use of excessive force, high number of police killings, and unfair treatment of the homeless. The City claims they don’t need oversight. I, as the mother of an unarmed man shot and killed by police on March 12, 2022, shout: “YES. THEY. DO.”
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Editor’s Note: The New Verse News has published a number of the poems written by Susan Vespoli in the aftermath of the killing by Phoenix police of her son Adam: "Before I Knew Adam Had Died,” "My Ex-Husband Calls… ," … In Reverse,” “I Am Finally Handed… ,” “Under Investigation… ,” “Dear 2022,” “Poem for My Middle Finger,” “Dear Gag Order.”